Introduction
Suing someone is a grind. It’s expensive, it drags on for months (or years), and at the end of the day, a judge might still rule against you. There are no sure bets in a courtroom.
That doesn’t mean you should give up on justice. It just means you should be tactical.
A credible lawyer will never tell you that a lawsuit is off the table—sometimes it’s the only way to hold someone accountable. But before you dive into the deep end of litigation, you should seriously consider a demand letter.
In many California civil cases, a well-written letter is enough to make the other side’s insurance company realize that settling now is cheaper than fighting later.
We’re going to break down how these letters work in the California legal system and, more importantly, how to write one that actually gets a response.
Demand Letter: What is it?
In California civil law, a demand letter is essentially your official “first move.” It’s an informal but serious notice. It tells the other party that you believe they’ve wronged you.
It is the bridge between a polite conversation & a full-blown lawsuit.
- What goes into the letter?
It lays out a factual argument.
- The Incident: Exactly what the other person or company did wrong.
- The Proof: Evidence of the injuries or financial losses you’ve suffered.
- The Ask: The specific “relief” you want—which is usually a specific dollar amount.
- Does the recipient have to answer?
Here is the catch: demand letters are not legally binding. In most cases, the person receiving it isn’t required by law to write back or give you a dime.
So, why bother? Because it signals that you aren’t just complaining—you’re preparing. It shows that you have your facts straight and that if they don’t settle now, a process server with a lawsuit might be the next thing they see.
- It’s not just about the money
While most people use these letters to get paid for medical bills or car repairs, they can also be used to force action. You might send one to:
- Make the landlord finally fix a dangerous staircase.
- Force a business to honor a contract they’re ignoring.
- Stop someone from infringing on your trademark.
- Where are they used?
You’ll see demand letters across almost every area of law. In the personal injury world, they are the standard first step for car accidents, slip-and-falls, dog bites, or medical errors. They are also the go-to tool for property damage disputes and messy landlord-tenant fights.
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Letter of Intent to Sue
In California, a letter of intent to sue is exactly what it sounds like: a formal warning shot. It is a document sent from a potential plaintiff to a prospective defendant to let them know that the time for “talking it over” is over.
If a standard demand letter in California is a request for a settlement, the letter of intent to sue is the final notice that a lawsuit is being drafted.
A Demand Letter is often the start of a negotiation. A Letter of Intent to Sue is the end of the negotiation.
These letters are common in personal injury and liability cases. They serve as a final reality check for the other party, showing them that you are no longer just considering your options—you are moving toward the courthouse. It is a way to prove the seriousness of your claim and often acts as the very last chance to avoid the cost and publicity of a public trial.
The Bottom Line: This letter is the final bridge before litigation. It’s meant to shake the other side out of their hesitation and force a decision: settle now or see you in front of a judge.
Legal Requirements for Sending a Demand Letter
In California, there isn’t one “official” state form for a demand letter, but that doesn’t mean it’s a free-for-all. Depending on your situation, the law might actually force you to send a letter before you’re even allowed to set foot in a courthouse.
Here is the reality of the legal “hoops” you need to jump through and the basics that keep your letter from being ignored.
- When the Letter is Mandatory
For some disputes, a demand letter in California isn’t just a good idea—it’s a legal requirement. If you skip it, a judge might throw your case out later.
- Consumer Protection (CLRA): If you’re suing a company for shady business practices or deceptive advertising, California law (the Consumer Legal Remedies Act) says you must give them a 30-day heads-up via a demand letter before filing a suit.
- Libel and Slander: If someone has trashed your name, you usually have a tiny 20-day window from the moment you find out to send a formal demand for a retraction.
- Medical Malpractice: There are very strict “notice of intent” rules here. You can’t just surprise a doctor with a lawsuit; you have to give them fair warning.
- Identify the Right Target
It is obvious. People may still get this wrong. You need to identify exactly who is responsible. Is it an individual? A corporation? A partnership? If you don’t name the right person or entity, your “final notice” has no teeth.
- Don’t Just Claim It—Prove It
A demand letter in California without evidence is just an expensive complaint. To get the other side’s insurance company to take you seriously, you have to attach the “why.”
- The Paper Trail: Include copies of medical bills, repair estimates, & pay stubs.
- The Visuals: Attach photos of the injuries or the damage to the property.
- The Official Word: Reference police reports or incident logs. If you show them the “smoking gun” now, they’ll realize they’re likely to lose in court and will be much more open to writing a check.
- Check Your Ego (The Tone)
You might be (rightfully) angry, but a “scorched-earth” letter full of insults is a rookie mistake. Why? Because a demand letter in California is often used as Evidence Exhibit A if you ever go to trial. A jury might not like you if you look unhinged or aggressive in your letter. You have to stay professional, calm, & clinical. You want to sound like someone who is offering them a “way out” before things get expensive.
The Bottom Line: California law gives you a lot of freedom in how you write these, but if you miss a mandatory deadline or name the wrong person, you could kill your case before it even starts.
Who can send a Demand Letter in California?
You don’t need a special license or a badge to send a demand letter. The law gives you the green light to stand up for yourself.
- Who has the right to send one?
- The Person Directly Affected: You are the main person with “standing” to write the letter if you were the one in the vehicle accident, the one bitten by the dog, or the one whose contract was disregarded.
- Parents and Legal Guardians: Minors can’t file lawsuits or sign legal settlements on their own. A parent or court-appointed guardian sends the letter to protect the child’s interests.
- Family Members in Wrongful Death Cases: The remaining family members (or the executor of the estate) have the right to claim a settlement if a loved one died as a result of someone else’s carelessness.
- The “DIY” vs. Attorney Choice
Technically, you can sit down at your kitchen table right now and write your own demand letter in California. People do it all the time for small disputes. However, there is a massive difference between a letter sent by an individual and one sent by a law firm.
Why a lawyer’s letter carries more weight:
- The “Bluff” Factor: When an insurance company sees a letter from an individual, they often assume you’re afraid of the courtroom. When they see a letterhead from a firm like Thompson Law, they know a lawsuit is just one click away.
- Legal Deadfalls: California has “trapdoors”—hidden deadlines & specific phrasing requirements. A lawyer makes sure you do it in the right way.
- Calculating the Real Value: Most people under-calculate what their case is worth. A lawyer knows how to factor in future medical costs and “pain and suffering” that a non-lawyer might leave off the table.
Important Elements of a Demand Letter
Writing a demand letter that actually gets a check in the mail isn’t about being the loudest person in the room—it’s about being the most prepared. If you send a rambling, angry email, the other side’s insurance company will just laugh it off. But if you send a structured, clinical breakdown of why they’re in trouble, they’ll start sweating the legal costs.
Here is how you build a “final notice” that actually commands respect in California.
- Stick to the Cold, Hard Facts
Don’t use “I feel.” Use “The facts are.” You need to walk them through the timeline like you’re explaining it to a judge. Don’t just say they hit you if it was a car wreck. Tell them the exact intersection and the time of day. Communicate the specific traffic violation they committed.
Mention the police report number. Mention what the witnesses saw. You want the person reading this to realize that you have a folder full of evidence and you aren’t afraid to use it. If you can prove they were at fault in the first three paragraphs, they’ll be much more likely to open their wallet by the end of the letter.
- Itemize Every Single Dollar (The Damages)
This is the “bill” part of the letter. You can’t just ask for a random lump sum; you have to show your work. In California, we generally break these “damages” into three piles:
- Special Damages: These are the receipts. List out the hospital bills and the ambulance ride. Mention the physical therapy. The exact number of hours you missed at work. If you have a document for it, it belongs here.
- General Damages: This is the compensation for “Pain and Suffering.” How did this mess ruin your life? It’s a massive part of your claim.
- Punitive Damages: These are the “punishment” fees. You only bring these up if the other person was doing something truly reckless. It’s a way of saying, “The jury is going to hate you if we go to court.”
- Make a Clear, No-Nonsense Demand
Don’t beat around the bush. You need to state the exact number it will take to make you go away. It should be a single, firm number. Tell them exactly what has to be done.
- Set a Hard “Expiration Date”
A demand letter in California without a deadline is weak. You need to give them a specific window of time to respond. Usually, 30 days in California.
This creates a “ticking clock” effect. It forces the insurance adjuster or the at-fault party to make a choice: pay you now, or spend ten times that amount on defense attorneys once the lawsuit is filed.
The Big Picture: The goal here is to make the other side realize that you are organized, you are serious, and you know exactly what your case is worth. When they see a letter that is this detailed, they usually decide that settling is the “cheap” way out.
Expectation After Sending a Demand Letter in California
Once you send that demand letter out into the world, you’re basically waiting to see how the other side blinks. In California, you usually won’t get a “maybe.” It almost always falls into one of three buckets.
Here’s the reality of what comes next:
- The Clean Break (They Say Yes)
Sometimes, a solid letter backed by real proof is enough to end the fight right then and there. The other person might just agree to your terms if they realize they’re at fault and your “ask” is fair. This is the goal: you get your check, and you move on. You don’t see the inside of a courtroom.
- The Haggling Phase (The Counteroffer)
This is where most California cases live. The other side—or more likely, their insurance adjuster—will write back and try to poke holes in your story.
- The “Lowball”: They’ll admit some fault but offer you way less money than you asked for.
- The Negotiation: They might invite you to talk it out.
You aren’t stuck with their first offer. This is a game of poker. You can hold out for more if your evidence is strong.
- The Cold Shoulder (Silence or Rejection)
This is the frustrating part. They might send a “get lost” letter. They might just ignore you completely.
- If they reject you: They’re betting that you won’t actually sue.
- If they stay silent: It’s a power move.
You can’t just keep sending the same letter. You have to decide at this point:
- Do you walk away, or
- Do you step up and file a formal lawsuit?
This is usually when you send a “Letter of Intent to Sue.”
The Bottom Line: You can tell exactly what kind of battle you’re in by the response—or lack thereof. It transforms a “maybe” into an obvious decision: accept what is offered or file a lawsuit.
Types of Compensation
A demand letter isn’t a “complaint”—it’s a bill. In California, you can use one for pretty much any civil dispute, but it really shines when you’re trying to recover specific, tangible losses.
- Personal Injury: Paying for the Physical Toll
Most injury cases end at the mailbox. Not the courthouse. Because trials are such a gamble, most defendants would rather settle once they see a solid demand letter. You can go after:
- Medical Debt: Every doctor’s visit, ER bill, and bottle of ibuprofen.
- Lost Income: The money you didn’t make because you were too hurt to show up for work.
- The “Hidden” Costs: This is the “pain and suffering” part—the compensation for the stress, the sleepless nights, and the physical agony of the recovery process.
- Broken Contracts: The Cost of a Flaky Partner
If you had a deal and someone walked away, a demand letter holds their feet to the fire. It’s about more than just a broken promise. You must showcase the ripple effect on your life or business.
- The Bottom Line: The supplier may owe you more than just a refund for failing to deliver. They may also owe you the money you would have made if you had the supplies.
- Reputation Damage: If their failure made you look bad to your own customers, you can demand they pay for that “brand” damage too.
- Property Damage: Taking on the Insurance Giants
Whether someone totaled your car or a pipe burst in your apartment, these letters are usually aimed at insurance companies.
- Fighting the “Lowball”: Insurance adjusters are paid to save the company money. If they offer you $2,000 for a $5,000 repair, a demand letter is your way of saying, “I know what this is worth.”
- The Last Resort: If you’ve already tried their “internal appeals” and they’re still playing games, a formal letter signals that you’re done being polite and are ready to file a “bad faith” claim.
The Bottom Line: The goal of the letter is to make the other person realize that paying you now is cheaper and easier than hiring a lawyer to fight you later. You aren’t just asking for money; you’re showing them why they already owe it to you.